Hey, welcome to today's video. We are talking about 'The SEVEN life logics to get you winning in life and business'.
And if you have had a struggle building your business in the last little while, wondering "Oh my gosh, what do I do? What do I do first? Where do I start?", this is definitely going to be helpful for you!
My name is Brandy Shaver and so I wanted to share this with you. It was a huge 'aha' moment for me last week and it's I shared it with a couple of people and I wanted to give you the same value.
1. Make Peace With The Past
So number one, make peace with your past so it doesn't spoil your present.
A lot of us get stuck in what happened yesterday. We get stuck in "I didn't do this. I didn't do that".
And we focus in on what didn't happen yesterday. For instance, I didn't go live on Monday and I could beat myself up.
However, it's not effective, focus on today and moving your business and your life forward.
2. Don't Listen to Others Opinions of You
Number two, what others think of you is actually none of your business. Okay.
So stop worrying about what other people think and focus on you and your business moving forward. This will save you so much energy and so much heartache down the road because really, it doesn't really matter what everybody else thinks about what you're doing.
It only matters what you think. Okay!
3. Time Heals
Number three, time heals almost everything, right?
So if you've had a bad experience, if you've had an argument with a team member, if you've done whatever, give it some time, give the time some time, right?
Nothing is going to be solved in maybe two days, remember we're not Amazon Prime!! 😉
4. YOU Are Responsible For Your Happiness
Number four, no one is the reason for your happiness except yourself.
This is really, really important to understand that you are responsible for your happiness.
So everything that happens and makes you happy is because of what YOU create.
5. Don't Compare
Number five, don't compare your life with others.
You have no idea what their journey is all about. And this one is huge, especially in what we do as entrepreneurs, because we can look at, let's say, we go look at Gary Vee.
And we're like, "Oh my gosh, he's so successful. He's got all these followers, his business is fabulous", but we don't understand his story and where he came from.
And you may be comparing your chapter one with his chapter 300. So understand that you are on your own journey and just put your blinders on.
Don't worry about what other people are doing and don't compare yourself. If you want to look at what Gary Vee's done, that's successful and model that. That's awesome. But keep yourself out of judgment. Super important because it just holds you back. All right!!
6. Stop Overthinking
Number six, stop overthinking and just take action.
It's all right to not know all the answers. So I actually just launched a new coaching group and I'll drop the link down below for you that you can go ahead and get in if that's what you want to do.
But we don't know all the answers. We put it together, we built the stuff and we don't see 10 years down the line, there's no way to see. But you don't need all the answers to move forward.
Number seven, smile, you don't own all the problems in the world.
And I'm sure you've heard this from other people before, is that if you look around, there's always somebody that has a bigger problem than you, and to be grateful for what you have!!
So if you got value from today, go ahead and let somebody else know, smash that heart button.
And if you want inside that coaching group that I'm talking about, it's actually called Beach Boss Influencers. I'm going to drop you the link down below where you can get the information and get in.
You can join us on the Island. I'm super excited about it. It's going to be super fun. We're going to get super specific about how to build your business. We're going to give you a lot of the 'how', I know a lot of people give you the 'what's', but we inside of this group are going to give you the 'how'.
So you're going to want to get in as soon as possible. And there's a way to actually get your membership for free. So you're going to check that out. I'll drop that down below, but let me know if you have any questions. And I appreciate you being here. Have a great rest of your day and we'll talk to you soon. Brandy xx